The C−N coupling of 1,2,4-triazolo[1,5-a]pyrimidin-7-ones with 1-adamantanol/1-bromoadamantane leads to 1,2,4-triazolo[4,3-a]pyrimidinium-5-olates, which are represented as mesomeric betaines (MBs). The formation of MBs involves not only N-alkylation of heterocyclic framework but also the rearrangement leading to a change in the type of fusion between pyrimidine and 1,2,4-triazole fragments. The structures of the obtained products were confirmed by the X-ray analysis and measurements of 13C−13C (JCC) coupling constants in the 1D 13C NMR spectra of selectively 13C-labeled samples. Treatment of the betaines with lithium bis(trimethylsilyl)amide (LiHMDS) gave anionic carbenes, which were detected by 13C NMR spectroscopy and were trapped by reactions with phenyl isothiocyanate and sulfur. Density functional theory (DFT) and the quantum theory of atoms in molecules (QTAIM) analyses allowed for an insight into the electronic structure of the obtained betaines and N-heterocyclic carbene derivatives.